Because your children deserve for you to have the right tools to support them through your separation and throughout a life of them growing up with separated parents...
The game-changing 7-step programme
for parents who care deeply about their children's wellbeing.
The research is clear: Divorce Damages Children
BUT... This doesn't tell the whole story
The research shows that it isn’t the divorce itself that damages children,
it is whether they are supported to process the divorce in the right way.
Sadly, the vast majority of parents are not equipped with the research-backed tools and understandings that help them support their child in the right way,
and THIS is what causes the damage.
It isn’t a lack of care, it isn’t even how amicable or acrimonious the divorce is. It is a lack of EDUCATION.
Current stats show us that less than 1% of divorcing parents have access to the education they need to get their divorce right for their child, and as a business, it is our mission to change this.
Because once you educate yourself, everything changes for your child, and everything changes for you too.
No one prepares you for how hard it is to parent your child through a breakup.
Not practically. Not emotionally. Not psychologically.
You’re navigating a situation you were never prepared for
One moment, you’re a parent…
The next, you’re trying to navigate:
- All of the changes separation brings
- A co-parenting dynamic that might feel tense, unpredictable, or out of your control
- Big emotions (yours and your child’s) that don’t come with a manual
And no matter how much you care, it can feel like you’re constantly second-guessing yourself.
You’re trying to hold everything together, but inside, it doesn’t feel that way
You’re doing your best to show up for your child.
But behind the scenes, it feels messy, overwhelming, and uncertain...
Maybe you’re lying awake at night wondering:
- “Is my child actually okay… or are they just not saying anything?”
- “Am I doing this right… or am I getting it wrong without realising?”
- “Is this going to affect them long-term?”
For many parents, this is the part no one talks about…
You might recognise yourself in this:
- You’re trying to stay strong for your child… but inside, you feel overwhelmed
- You want to protect them from everything… but you don’t know how
- You’re worried about how the other parent’s behaviour is affecting them
- You’re trying to keep things stable… but everything feels uncertain
And depending on your situation, the pain can show up differently…
For Some Parents:
- You feel like you’re carrying the emotional load alone
- You’re constantly tuning into your child, trying to make sure they’re okay
- You worry about the impact of the other parent’s choices
For Others:
- You feel like you’re being pushed out or distanced from your child
- You’re worried your relationship with them is changing
- You don’t always feel heard, respected, or included
For Many:
- Communication with your co-parent is difficult, tense, or draining
- You feel like you’re walking on eggshells
- No matter what you do, it’s not enough
- You see how this is affecting your child, but you feel powerless to stop it
And underneath all of it... There’s one thing that matters most:
You just want your child to be okay.
To feel secure.
To feel loved.
To have a close relationship with you.
To come through this without it shaping them negatively.
But right now, you don’t feel confident that it's guaranteed
And that’s the part that’s hardest to sit with and where the majority of parents find themselves without the right education.
There is hope!
Our 7-Step Programme has been designed specifically for you, by a leading therapist and divorced parent
In the programme what your child needs to thrive will become
Visible, Tangible and Doable!
1. Visible
Understand exactly what your child needs to thrive during and after your divorce - based on the science of child brain development that is imbedded into to our 7-Step-Programme.
2. Tangible
Practical tools, based on an in-depth knowledge of psychology, enabling you to give your child everything they need to thrive, in a way that feels authentic to you and relevant to your unique child.
3. Doable
These aren't short-term fixes that will eventually slip away, they are deep, mindset changes that happen for you, as a parent, and as a result for your children; rewire your child's brain for positivity, resilience, life long connection and a feeling that they are deeply and truly loved.
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Through our 7-Step Programme, we equip parents to transform their child’s wellbeing during divorce, by focusing on what the research shows us to be true:
Children need ONE of their parents to understand how to support them to process the divorce in order for them to feel secure and thrive through it. By equipping yourself to be that parent your child needs, it changes everything for your child, their wellbeing, the security of their relationship with you, and your wellbeing and confidence as a parent too!
This work changes lives.
This could be your reality…
A deep, secure, and lasting connection with your child
Even if time feels limited. Even if things have shifted in your relationship. Even if they are shutting you out, or the opposite, clinging to you.
Your relationship doesn’t have to feel fragile or uncertain. It can feel:
⭐ Close
⭐ Natural
⭐ Deeply connected
Where your child opens up, trusts you, and feels safe with you, even in a difficult divorce dynamic.
How?
This is possible when you understand how connection is built through neuroscience, not time quantity, but the quality of emotional attunement, which we show you how to create in a way that fits your specific situation.
Your child feeling emotionally secure
Not torn, anxious, or withdrawn
Not clinging to one parent. Not shutting down. Not caught in the middle.
But grounded, settled, and emotionally safe.
How?
This comes from applying attachment-based research, understanding exactly what your child needs to feel secure across two homes, and how YOU can consistently provide that, even in complex dynamics. We equip you with this in an easy to understand and doable way.
A child who is happy and thriving
Able to focus on life, not just the separation
For a child, when emotional security is in place with one of their parents, everything else opens up.
You begin to see:
⭐ More confidence
⭐ More ease
⭐ More capacity for deep connection, in school and everyday life
How?
Because research shows that when a child’s emotional needs are met, their brain is free to learn, grow, and thrive, and we show you how to create those conditions based on what is in your control as an individual parent.
Knowing exactly what to say to your child
Even in the hardest moments
When your child asks difficult questions. When emotions run high.
You don’t freeze. You don’t second-guess yourself afterwards.
You feel calm, clear, and confident in how you respond.
How?
Because you understand what children need to hear at each stage of development, and how to communicate in a way that protects their emotional wellbeing, even in challenging co-parenting situations.
Your child feeling safe across two homes
No matter your divorce situation
Even if one environment feels unpredictable. Even if things aren’t always within your control.
Your child still feels:
⭐ Secure
⭐ Held
⭐ Emotionally anchored
How?
Because you know how to become the consistent emotional foundation your child relies on, using research-backed tools that create security regardless of external circumstances.
Confidence that you are doing this right
Without the worry and overwhelm
No more constant second-guessing. No more lying awake wondering if you’ve got it wrong.
Instead, you will have a grounded sense of:
⭐ "I know what my child needs"
⭐ "I know how to support them"
⭐ "I know I'm giving them the best possible chance"
How?
Because you’re no longer relying on guesswork, you’re following proven psychological frameworks that show what actually helps children thrive through separation.
Setting your child up for healthy relationships
Now and in the future
Not carrying this experience forward in a damaging way.
But growing into an adult who:
⭐ Feels secure in relationships
⭐ Can trust, connect, and communicate
⭐ Has strong emotional foundations
How?
Because attachment research shows that what a child experiences now directly shapes their future relationships. When done well, this period can strengthen, not weaken, those foundations.
Your Specific Child, Your Specific Divorce Situation
Here's What Programme Graduates Say
About Their Experience
Messages Graduates Have Sent Us ...
I was anxious about my children when I separated from their Dad, but I was plodding on, taking each day as it came and kind of getting through it. I did not realise how badly I needed this course until I did it.
Wow, wow, wow, total transformation in the way I approach what my children need, my levels of guilt and anxiety around my children and most importantly, as a result, the biggest transformation has been with my children. When I look back, I thought we were getting through and they seemed fine, but now I realise we were all just surviving, now my children are truly thriving. What a wake up call to realise I didn’t just have to get through, we could all be thriving!
Emma L
Hannah's course is literally the best investment I have ever made in my son's future and well-being.
I learnt so much and now I see what I have got out of the course, how much it has benefited me and helped my boy thrive, I would honestly pay 10x more. Absolutely life changing for both me and my son. Thank you so much Hannah, you are amazing!
Lucy B
The best thing I ever did!
There is a lot of content in the 7 week course but it is organised in a way that makes it practical for a parent to fit into their busy schedule.
My children are so much happier now I have been able to implement the stuff I have taken away from the course, and weirdly, I feel like I have more time because I have so much less mental clutter around my worries, fears and anxieties around my children, my divorce and being the best Mum I can be. If you’re reading this and worrying about how you will make it work, I was in your shoes, and all I can say is, you will thank yourself if you do, and so will your children when they're older! Utterly empowering course, thank you Hannah.
Jo S
Words of Lasting Transformation From Graduates...
WEEK 1 WORDS FROM SARAH...
"Omg, Hannah,
I've listened to the week 1 coaching and done the exercises and I already feel so uplifted and positive about my daughters future. I'm so ready to do the work to help her thrive!"
WEEK 3 WORDS FROM KATE...
"You are one of the most talented coaches I have ever met.
Working with you is transforming my life and is transforming my 2 children's lives in ways I could never have dreamt. (And it's only week 3!)
Thank you for your beautiful energy and spirit."
CHARLOTTE'S CONTINUED TRANSFORMATION...
"Today, I had the opportunity to answer a really hard question my daughter asked me about why her dad and I divorced. Before the course I would have struggled, not known what to say, and I now know this would have left her confused and putting pieces together herself.
What once would have been a horrible encounter, was a wonderful thing to share with my daughter. I confidently answered her question in a way that left her feeling satisfied with the answer, an answer that was based on truth, love for her and honour and respect for both myself and her dad.
I have a deep gratitude for the 7-Step Programme. It's probably the best investment I've ever made for myself and my daughter and a gift that keeps on giving as time goes by."
KATRINA, ONE YEAR ON...
"The teachings from the 7-Step Programme continue to work magic in the lives of my children. One of the best investments I've ever made and I just wish I'd been able to do it earlier. I send my thanks to you, Hannah, every time I see the work from the programme continuously positively impact the lives of my children."
Your Journey Starts Here
IT'S TIME TO SAY YES TO TRULY SUPPORTING YOUR CHILDREN TO THRIVE!
Our Transformative 7-Step Programme Exists to Empower Separated Parents to Have Children Who Thrive!
Thanks to professional and personal expertise as a therapist and separated mum (as well as hundreds of amazing results with clients she has worked with), Hannah has found there are 7 CRUCIAL STEPS to helping your children thrive during your divorce and beyond, all of which are totally DOABLE!
In the programme, you will gain access to the full and complete collection of Hannah's most powerful tools and teachings, all designed to help you transform your children’s lives, help them not just survive this, but thrive and become more resilient and able to think positively as a result - as well as you thriving as a parent too!
You'll be guided through each step with a combination of powerful (live online!) coaching, nurturing therapeutic support, online community, deep-dive on-demand training, actionable skills, and practical tools.
What to Expect - Your 7-step journey
Step 1: Mastering Your Empowered Parent Mindset:
This module feels like a sun rising inside you, as you wake up to the knowledge and tools that transform anxiety into optimism and challenges into things you feel confident to handle. You will see the positive impacts of your new empowered mindset on your children's wellbeing.
Parent-guilt, anxiety, confusion, and never feeling like we are getting it right or are good enough, often leads us to carry a great deal of pain and responsibility. This takes so much of our emotional energy! By becoming free of these negative feelings, we are able to put more of our emotional energy into creating positive lives for our children.
It’s time to break free! Let fear, guilt, and anxiety know they are NO LONGER in charge. It will change your children's world...as well as your own!
Step 2: Truly Understanding Your Child’s Inner World:
Truly eye-opening, this deep-dive module enables you to understand your child's inner world on a whole new level, in a way you haven’t considered before - enabling you to deeply connect with their experience, bringing you closer together.
In this step, you’ll use powerful tools to take a deep-dive into understanding what your child is thinking and feeling, as well as what their world looks like and feels like in their tiny minds. The beauty and magic of this stage is that once we connect with our child’s inner world, we are then able to truly connect with them on a deep level. This insight will be the difference between your child getting through your divorce and your child feeling truly seen, understood, and supported, which not only will make a huge difference to their life, self confidence, and self worth, but also your life-time bond with them.
Step 3: Understanding Attachment:
Unlock a radical new way to understand what attachment is, why it is SO important to your child thriving, and learn how to foster a healthy and strong attachment style for your child, which will make a profound difference to their wellbeing throughout life.
Attachment is the foundation of emotional health and healthy relationships. We take a deep-dive into understanding how divorce threatens our child’s sense of attachment, causing huge internal anxiety and unhealthy coping mechanisms, and most importantly how you can protect your child from having anxiety around their attachments, nurture the strength of their sense of attachment, and as a result create the BEST foundation for them to go on to have happy and connected lives.
Step 4: How To Create The Certainty Your Child So Desperately Needs:
Using your new understanding of your child’s inner world, you’ll take steps towards creating physical and emotional certainty in your child’s life, with tools that break it all down for you into easy to action steps.
In this module, you’ll get game-changing practical strategies and understandings for creating certainty in all areas of your child’s world. Implementing these learnings will provide them with an even stronger foundation to live free of anxiety and worry, enabling them to play, dream, have fun, and get lost in being a child…the childhood every child deserves!
Step 5: The Importance of Your Child Feeling Control:
Learn why your child feeling a sense of control is so important to their mental health and how to strike the delicate balance between a child having too much control and feeling overwhelmed, and a child not having enough control and feeling out of control of their own life, leading to anxiety.
It's time to empower your child... and this step will give you the exact tools you need to understand how much control your child needs to feel empowered, happy, and in control of their life. Getting this right not only enables your child to thrive now, it also builds a strong level of resilience, good mental health, and a positive mindset for life! It’s a game-changer for your child and their sense of self-empowerment in the midst of things changing in life!
Step 6: The Power of Being Interconnected:
Discover what it means to be interconnected and how this transforms your child’s wellbeing, sense of value, stability, and self-worth.
We were built to thrive within tribes, and our brains are still wired that way. In this step you will learn how this brain wiring plays a huge part in our children's wellbeing and makes the difference between them feeling like they are just surviving and truly thriving!
You’ll take a deep-dive into what it means to be interconnected and how you can foster a sense of interconnectedness in your child’s life, so even when things are changing at home, they feel stable and grounded in the wider network around them. Here, we nurture your child's innate brain-wiring to help them thrive, in a simple and doable way!
Step 7: The Need to Feel Seen & Understood:
Your child feeling seen & understood for everything that they are truly is a superpower that will give them the ultimate foundation to thrive. So much more than praising them & being there for them, this is a deep level of understanding and connecting with your child.
Using ground-breaking tools, you will be able to step back and see your child for everything they are, the good and the challenging!...We will then take it one step further and look at how we can ensure our child feels seen and accepted for all of these parts that make them who they are, whilst striking a balance between drawing boundaries, and offering unconditional love and acceptance.
This balance can be tricky to find, but with my clear and easy tools, you will be able to see behind your child's behaviour to what is going on underneath, empathise with them deeply, and communicate with them in a way that draws boundaries and also leaves them feeling loved and understood.
This is the ultimate way for your child to be supported through your divorce and beyond.
As part of the programme you will also get live coaching on:
⭐ How to speak to your child about your divorce
⭐ How to answer their tough questions around your divorce
⭐ Co-parenting boundaries we desperately need that honour us and our child
⭐ How to emotionally process your divorce yourself, whilst trying to support your child to do the same
⭐ How to help your child to understand their life and changes that are happening; extremely important for their mental health
⭐ Defining a happy child; how to know whether your child is happy and banishing the anxiety around it
⭐ The power of supporting your child in the best way when they are upset or angry (and the tools you need to do that)
Take Back Control Of Your Children's Well-Being...
By joining our 7-Step Programme built exclusively for separated parents who care deeply about their children's well-being.
Sign Up NowWhat's Included Over The 7 Week Programme?
✓ ON-DEMAND COACHING: 7 weekly modules full of power-packed training featuring transformative teachings, parental empowerment exercises, connective relationship strategies for you and your child, and practical skills for a lifetime of happiness and connection for your child. Flexible timing - watch on demand!
✓ LIVE WEEKLY COACHING: We dive into understanding our children and what they need in an advanced way together (in real time) through 90-minute zoom sessions with Hannah. Designed to create personalised applications unique to your situation, your child and you as a parent, nurture your growth and your child's growth, and provide you with wise guidance every step of the way!
✓ LIVE Q&A SUPPORT: Throughout the programme you will have access to nurturing Q&A support live with Hannah. This is a great space to discuss any struggles, ask any questions and feel supported on this amazing journey you are going on, through 90-minute group Q&A zoom sessions with Hannah. Designed to support you on your journey, giving you a space to ask a therapist any questions you have around the course, what your child needs and any challenges your specific situation is bringing up.
✓ SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY: You're not alone! Become part of a 24/7 intimate online global community of parents committed to giving their children what they need to thrive - all experiencing this deeply transformative journey together!
✓ INCREDIBLE PRICING: Weekly live coaching with Hannah (leading therapist & coach), live Q&A sessions (led by Hannah), on-demand training, tons of practical skills and tools, and 24/7 supportive community. If you were to do all of this 1:1 with Hannah the total cost would be over £14,000 - our 7-Step Programme gives you all of this at a fraction of the cost - this is our best value for money option for parents who want the right tools to support their children.
Sign Up!The Programme is perfect for you if...
You are feeling excited about the idea of working with an expert, who can show you exactly what you need to do, how to do it, and how to make it authentic to you and your children - in order for them to feel happy, secure and thrive.
You want actionable, practical, and doable help specifically tailored for parents who are or have separated from their child's other parent.
You know that your child needs support and you want to give this to them in the best way, but often feel anxious and doubt yourself, wondering if there is more you could be doing to help.
